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Phillip Dobson's avatar

My family moved to a small city in Germany in 1973, including 3 children; the youngest was 2 and the oldest 9. None of us could say 'hello' in German, so we naturally gravitated to the few Americans and Canadians in the city.

Within a year, our oldest children were making good marks in German schools, and when we left Germany in 1980, everyone was fluent in German, the majority of our friends were German, and we had a German God-child. Returning to Canada was a greater shock to our family than emigrating to Germany.

Immigrants will gather in enclaves, because that's the natural thing to do, but their children will become part of the general culture. The parents will maintain the connection to their motherland and the language they learned as a child, and most will never be entirely comfortable in a country so different from their birth-country. Cultural is powerful, and becomes part of us when we are children. Languages learned after puberty are spoken with an accent derived from the language(s) we learned before then. The next generation of children will melt into their environment, despite parents' efforts to focus them on their past.

Of course, some immigrants will move on to other countries...perhaps it was their original destination. But most of those who thought of Canada as a waypoint on their journey will throw their anchor on Canadian soil if we can keep them here until they are comfortable with us. Canada is more like a family than a country, and as we embrace new people into our fold, our family becomes stronger for it. Children adopted into the family are deliberately chosen for who they are or will become...the family has no choice of those who are born into it. Most immigrants are by nature the bravest, the most resourceful, innovative and flexible people their mother country has to offer.

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Bryan Patterson's avatar

“I believe we should encourage newcomers to live all around the community and, if possible, attend places of faith, social groups, etc. that include a mix of ethnic groups - along with ethnocultural specific groups.”

If you want to see a super example of your idea here in Saint John, go to YouTube, Rivercross Church, pick any Sunday, suggest October 29, 2023, go to the 1h7m mark and you will see 4 languages on the references insert screen. I went two weeks ago and am still processing my audience observations. Unbelievable. All the best. Bryan

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